30 Days of Blogging Honesty – Day 10

Day 10 — The last time I snooped into something I wasn’t supposed to (like a medicine cabinet in a friend’s bathroom), I found…

Hatemail. I don’t snoop around other people’s cabinets or drawers but I do occasionally hack into my boyfriend’s mail/phone to make sure he’s still truthful to me. I know, I’m obsessive and it’s illegal. But the stuff I found made me not wanna look anymore.

His ex had been sending really nasty messages about me and him, then love messages (saying she still loves him and she wants him back),  then hateful ones again (that he’s a prick and he should go and die). I checked his replies to her and I was well satisfied with the cold shoulder I saw in there so I stopped prying. When he’s ready to talk to me about these he’ll do it but now he avoids the matter completely.



  1. I can understand that. My boyfriend gets random calls for his ex. I guess I dont snoop with his stuff because I have a good trust threshold with him, but no one likes to hear that sort of thing happening so I can understand why you’d be looking.

      1. Attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder, and monogomy is a term lost on some people lol sometimes we just get a rotten one.

    1. She has no pride as a woman. If I would have been shown the door I would have walked right through it and never looked back. If a guy does not love me there is certainly one out there who does so no point being somebody’s mat.

  2. There’s always a fine line there, but I’m glad you stopped reading too much into it when you saw his cool replies ❤ Nasty exes are a pain, but he loves you enough to stay with you so don't worry about it!

  3. That ex sounds psycho. Umm…. So, how does one hack into a mail/phone. I’d like to learn. 😀

    1. I’ve setup a keylogger on his machine 🙂 and for his phone, I looked at where his fingers were going when he unlocked it so I knew what the password was 😀

    1. 😀 I’m a scorpio thus a gealous woman by definition. I love my man and I only want my man to be MINE and sharing is out of the question. I told him when we started dating.
      “If I catch you cheating, she will become a panda and you will be single again.”
      “Panda?” he asked
      “Panda – two black circles around the eyes.”

  4. mine is different… my EX’s wife is the one checking out my FB page and all that jazz LOL I don’t even talk to my lying-cheating-got-a-girl-pregnant-and-married-her XBF since like FOREVER :))

      1. Any jealous woman would feel threathened by any other woman. I remember I had a stare contest with a chick that gave my BF more ice-cream on the cone than she gave me! War’s on Bieetch!

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